If you want to live a happier life, tie it a goal and not to people or things
Albert Einstein.
For the most part, in one way or the other we blame our failure on others. We don’t keep ourself accountable for our acts and our choice’s.
We are not special but why do we expect a special treatment? Why do we feel that people have not done much for us? Why is the need to be saved? And Why blame others?
We choose our destiny. We all have something that we want to do and we are passionate about. But everything does not go according to our plan.
In my case I’m a free Lance puppeteer. When I started I thought I’ll get a lot of work but it did not. I blamed others for that. Told myself that others with resource who promised me did not helped me.
Saying this to myself did not help me to solve the problem but made me very comfortable and gave me an escape to stay away from my problem and not engage with it.
No one is coming to save you. Its your life 100%.
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I realised that it was a wrong approach. It did not grow me or challenge me to work out solutions to my problem.
The other part of this problem is expectation from others. Why wait for others? Why expect others to do things for us? Waiting for others to do our work for nothing in return is madness in my view.
Thankfully we can learn anything and everything that we want. So learn and make mistakes. Mistakes can be rectified and avoided in our future adventures. It will make us independent.
Believe in self, don’t expect much from others, ask for help but don’t hang on it forever. Keep moving forward. This thought will go on memory slate for future adventures.
