My cousin and me used hate this guy. This guy was harmless and considered us as friends. But Whenever we(cousin and me) were together we used to talk about him badly. We used to recollect all those moments which made us hate him. It really effected our relationship with that guy. We grew more hostile toward him.
He used to spend a lot of time with us in our house hence the atmosphere was unbearable. We wanted to stop this for our own sake.
Idea to combat this was very simple. We decided not to talk bad about him ever again. This helped us a lot. Our relationship and dynamic changed. Hostility slowly faded away.
This thought me a very important lesson. The kind of thought comes in our mind shapes our reality. If we keep our mind positive the reality turns positive. Negative thoughts impact us negatively.
Life is too beautiful to be spent on negative thoughts. Cheer up be happy. Enjoy your life. Think positive and switch reality for better. This one goes on my memory slate.
